Saturday, March 24, 2012

SELF-REGULATED BEHAVIOR


When I was a child my behavior was not the best I just to be rude with others .  This behavior was of consequence of self defence because when  I was a child in school some students    just to mocked of me, they just to take my pencil, notes and so on. Moreover, they treated me bad  they said to me if you  said something we going to do "this" that" etc. one day tired of this problem I did not want to go school my parents were concerned about my decision. Then, they  made me to  tell  what was happening.  I told my  father all since the first day of school. He immediately take charge of this situation by going to talk with the teacher and parents of those kids who where bother me. However,  for me was a relief by speaking out I felt more comfortable and secure of myself. I became  an aggressive person it was like pay back to all  those students. One day a student who actually  was one of who stared all this problem tried to continue with her behavior she rushed  me to the classroom  because we came back from break time, so I turn back of her and I literary pushed her on the chairs and hit on her head she began to bleed from the nose. she cried and yelling for help, but students step back because  they did not believed what they saw how much I change. Since that day  there were  changes  everything was more tolerable and some students who were victims too, became my friends. our behavior is consequence of something there, is a prover that it say "all  our actions have consequences" good or bad and there are people who take advantage  of  "fragile" people.